February 28, 2025

Nikki and Eric Visit

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The Farkases (I think I've been writing it wrong: Farkas's...both look wrong) came to visit!  Ever since we told them we were moving, they have been talking about coming to visit.  To be honest, New Yorkers don't travel unless it's to Florida, so I was shocked when they actually booked tickets.  And also honored and excited to see them.  We had an amazingly fun long weekend with them.

Friday, we went to brunch at the Harbor and then took them to Del Mar beach.


It was not the best beach weather, but it's snowing and gloomy in NY, so they were happy anyway.

Ben taught Eric how to surf!



Then we had charcuterie, dinner and a fire pit at our house.  Eric is a huge fan of Ben's salmon dip, so this was a must for the trip.




 

February 20, 2025

4th Annual Girls Trip

It's possible that I lost count, but I believe this was Laurel and I's 4th girls trip.  However, this was the first one where I live in the place we always vacation and the first time we were finally able to stay on Coronado!  We've been dreaming about that for years and it took living here to figure out the system to renting cottages on base.

Another perk to this trip was Tolson got to stay at our house while we slipped away for a few days.  These 2 boys talk everyday and were thrilled to spend some time together.  I'm pretty sure they played nonstop and very little sleep was had.

P.S. Colin has grown about 4 inches in the last few months!

We spent one night at the Del Mar beach on Camp Pendleton.  Coffee on the beach is the perfect way to start a vacation :)

The rest of our time was on Coronado!

We stayed in a "cottage" on the beach, next to the hotel.  It was perfect because we had our own space, but could use the amenities of the hotel. 

At the hotel rooftop terrace:


We had the place pretty much to ourselves.  If you can spy 2 little chairs in the distance, that was our spot in front of our cottage.


Our trips sound boring to most, but they are so refreshing to us.  We did a little shopping, watched a lot of HGTV and sat on the beach for hours.  We went out for a nice seafood dinner one night on the island, but also just ate easy Trader Joe's meals...a few days of no cooking is just what we need.

February 18, 2025

Trip up to Camarillo

Ben was asked to preach at our old church, so we took a little weekend trip up to Camarillo.  Unfortunately, Alison wasn't able to get off work, so she stayed home and took care of Maya.  I was excited to go back and see some of our favorite places and people.

First stop, was lunch at Namaste Spice land!  We stocked up on some essentials while we were there and laughed at the fact that we drove 2.5 hours to go grocery shopping.

We drove by our old house and then we went up to Ventura and walked around downtown.  Rocket Fizz was one of our favorites and we did a little thrifting.



Then we went over to the Grant's for dinner.  Timmy has joined their family since we moved and it was so great to meet him.

Hanging out with Erin felt like we could just pick up where we left off, but then we looked at our kids and realized a lot has actually changed.  The kids and I spent many hours in this living room, playing with little Lindsey and baby Kailey and now there are 2 more kids and my kids aren't kids anymore.  I was very proud of my boys for hanging out with the littles, playing and watching cartoons.



When it was time for their littles to go to bed, we took our boys to the hotel and then Ben and I went over to the Shuben's, our old neighbors/friends from church/Ben's hiking buddy.  We shared charcuterie, a glass of wine and wonderful conversation.  

Sunday, Ben preached at Faith Community and then we went out to lunch with a bunch of people.  My brain hurt a little by the time it was time to head back home.  It was great to catch up with old friends, but my brain was trying to recall too much information.  While talking to people in our Camarillo life, they were asking us about our New York life and then where we are now and I was left thinking, "I'm pretty sure we live in San Diego now...but we've lived too many places, that much I know."

 

February 16, 2025

Boogie Boarding at Del Mar


That little black dot in the picture is Colin boogie boarding.  He had the beach to himself on this beautiful day.  Del Mar beach is just a block from Ben's office on base and is perfect!  Free parking, a nice bathroom, a little restaurant and a playground.  What makes it more perfect for me is that it's always quiet and usually only a few people will be there.